On responding to other people's uncertainty

They stop They go ahead and it works out Pessimistic/ Possible regret, Less trust, maybe blame 2015-04-46 They go ahead and it doesn't work out Awkwardness, fear of "I told doubtful more friction you so, one-down Neutral Their decision Their triumph Their consequences Optimistic/ supportive Their decision (while Their triumph, possibly with your support Their consequences, shared learning acknowledging risks and not overriding people)