Learning to spend on enjoyment

I tend to be frugal: no generic groceries name Unless we have a Free strong preference focus on free options. first before paid ones. ☐ simplification over hedonic adaptation/ golden handcuffs 2015-04-20a I'm slowly getting the hang of spending on self-care, relationships, and skills... Fruits, plants, fabric ↓ ↓ ↓ Eating gardening sewing •Supplies & tools for pleasurable/useful hobbies Of Treating friends to lunch or cooking for them ↳ also creating opportunities to discover reciprocal generosity