Exploring this distance

......... & There's this SPACE between me and a "nice to have"," can imagine myself happy with it and happy without it. knowing that, I don't have to reflexively talk myself out of things. (a slight fear of hedonic adaptation is itself an attachment and a Sign of distrust...) It's okay to prefer 2015-06-12c one or the other, even though I know neither is essential. To and it's okay for those preferences to differ from what other people expect or want them to be. I can work on those preferences separately, so I can understand or even shift them. Aha! My challenge isn't detachment. It could be more like unclear preferences.